In the age of information, where a click starts a date and a text ends a relationship we tend not to focus on the offline world. Relationships have changed and have given access to different forms of cheating. This awful act has the power to make you doubt everything, every little gesture, every I love you and every cherished moment. This mixes hate, anger, and disgust basically every negative emotion together, terrorizing your body for months. If you should forgive is your choice but below I will enlighten you about the whys of each cheater.
The unemotionally available cheater
This person has their heart locked by fear of broken memories leaving them unable to open up to anyone. The emotional connection is lost in beautiful words filled with a blank void and no meaning. Although there is a relationship, emotionally it is platonic. They cheat because they don´t actually love their partner, if there is no feeling bonding them as more than friends that touch each other then it doesn´t feel wrong for them to cheat.
The self-destructive cheater
Feeling like they don´t deserve the love they are receiving, they begin to sabotage themselves. When clicking the self destroy button, their damaging behavior has the sole purpose to end things. They don´t believe they deserve to be happy so their subconscious forces them to do one of the most unforgivable things in a relationship.
The anti-love cheater
These people were not made to love blindly with their heart therefore they can´t resist temptation. A person other than their partner is like a glass of water in the middle of the desert, they reach for short-term satisfaction. Although unable to love they still decide to have relationships. All they want is physical satisfaction, where touch is the ruler and the heart is useless.
The frightened sheep cheater
In this situation they are so afraid that things will end that they sabotage the relationship. Acting from fear of a fictional future, fixating on the negative outcome they believe that they will feel better in the end if they cheated. This hardly explainable logic is the pure consequence of fear.
The quitting is the only option cheater
Instead of fighting in a relationship when some things may not be perfect they give up. Living in a utopia they believe that if everything isn´t perfect therefore too human then the best solution is to run for the exit. These people can´t fight for someone, when things aren´t a fairytale then they just quit.
The self-confidence seeker cheater
Overruled by insecurity this person needs to feel others want them to feel confident even if just for a short time. The validation is crucial in a life of self-doubt. This insecure person finds passion the best energy for them, they need to suck energy from other people for self confidence so cheating is the best way. The opinion of their partner is never enough.
The dating for security cheater
These species date someone for pure security. The goal is to feel the comfort of a home while having the passion of others. Although this seams like the behavior of a person in their 50´s, this happens a lot in young couples.
The I will do it first cheater
Broken trust leads to a constant fear that they will be cheated on. Scared of the probability of being ripped from monogamy they want to be the first to do it. If relationships are a power game, this is pride and power taking over.
The emotional cheater
They start to date emotionally without even noticing. Sharing everything as if they would share with a partner, there is jealousy, care and a need to be in constant touch. The thing is that this is a relationship of the mind, one living in pure denial. Although there is no actual sexual interaction, their heart stops belonging to their partner.
