When you are emotionally intelligent you analyse human behaviour with the goal of trying to understand our condition. Observing how people speak, their nervous particularities, how they hesitate before they lie or the passionate look when they see someone they love. You try to find people’s motivations as well as the logic behind their behaviour. By understanding the people that surround you it will help you understand not only how to deal with people but also yourself better.
Are you emotionally intelligent?
You are curious about the human condition as well as how it changes with different cultures. You like to know how people adapt, live, their beliefs along with their stories. You want to learn about all people.
You love to listen and help. There is a part of you that needs to make the people around you happy. That is the only true goal in life. Your presence calms people down, opens them with no fears. They trust you with anything because they know you will listen and truly help. You like to connect. As a person, you portray trust because you feel every situation as if it would have happened to you.
You can see things from every perspective. Changing your mood with the energy of the room however always knowing who you are, as a consequence you won’t change that. You are aware of your strengths and weaknesses. Always with the will to improve.
You are not controlled by the past, therefore, don’t live anxious about the future. You live in the moment just like casually cool surfers. You live the moment as intensely beautiful as it is by appreciating all it has to offer.
You control your emotions always self-aware about your negative feelings. You know how to control your emotions also how to put things in perspective before spiralling out of control emotionally.
You say what you feel to people instead of letting the feelings in. You prefer to deal with problems than allowing feelings to create a hole in your relationships. You are the best version of yourself.
Doesn´t this sound as a goal for the mind?
