We have blindly accepted a new prototype of what is seen as a wonderful human being. This new human being feeds their energy with validation. Their mind is made of vain subjects followed by memorized quotes they pretend are their own words. They lean on copied ideals with no shame, they all use the same clothes because magazines are bibles and their life goal is to achieve the superficial image they all fight for.
Do you think I am lying?
The ugly truth is that the ideal person fought to achieve is merely an image. The thing is what you see is a well-constructed image that feeds your eyes. This prototype cultivates itself by enhancing their esthetic. They polish their exterior and create a mirage on their exterior, something that seems complex but actually is just a collage of what they hear. The answer to the big why is that instead of discovering themselves they imitate what is perceived as beautiful. They don’t do this for themselves, they do this for the world. They seek to be the perfect utopia believing that means mimicking this prototype. These people believe that to be someone then they must be what others want. They need others to like them. They are fed by likes both in the form of technology but also compliments.
What most people are blinded to see is if we were judging the beauty in these people´s brain´s and not the hours they take to look splendid, if we all wore our personality raw in the open I could bet you that they wouldn’t be beautiful. That all the complexity would turn out to be so simple… so plain. Many people would wear the same personality. This prototype our society has idealized is just a bunch of beautiful zombies that can´t form authentic words. That to try to delete the void that torments them they wear an illusion but only thinks in grunts. They already wear the same clothes but what people don’t see is that they also wear the same insides and can we really call that a personality? Something so weak as well as desperately superficial.
Imagine a world with no need for validation
We should promote people to grow their minds. We should cultivate ourselves with books, art, travels, and conversation. Instead, we believe that we should use makeup, buy clothes, cars and spend our time looking at each other’s profiles as an interior intense competition. This constant competition, the look for some higher social status is so diminishing of our race. We are built to be intelligent, to learn and to read, why do we waste our time with the opinion of others? Others build us even if we don´t admit it. These people fill their insecurities with ideas of perfection.
What needs to be done is to stop believing that if you achieve that beautiful image you have found everything. Your goal should be to find yourself. Learn who you are. You will discover that probably you don´t want to be that ideal of visual perfection followed by fake friends. Discover what you love not what others love. Do what you want instead of what others want. Don’t let others dictate who you are.