Last week with the royal wedding melting our hearts most of us unconsciously decided to look within. Have you ever noticed how hard it is to actually know what you feel? Most of the time you are so busy with daily life that although you think you know your wants you actually just know the superficial layer. I am going to list the symptoms of someone that has fallen in love for those that haven’t yet admitted it to themselves.
The love symptoms
- Everything you see will make you think about that person. They are in your most recurring thoughts due to your surroundings trigger you to remember them as well as the constant worry of how they feel and think.
- You feel like a pre teen waiting for her crush to text back. You are so anxious that you spend your time creating scenarios of why they aren´t answering in your head. Alien abduction is always an option.
- Without noticing their name enters most of your conversations. You associate words with your shared stories or memories so you end up talking about that person all the time.
- They appear in your dreams (more than once). BAM they control your mind. Even if you try not to think about them during the day your subconscious makes you see them at night.
- You sometimes find yourself just looking at them. Just watching them talk or being themselves makes you smile. You like to scan every little detail of that person so that your dreams become even more real.
- You open you heart and deliver your soul. You want to show the real you. Not afraid to tell what haunts you. Feeling this huge need to share. There is this need to become transparent to this person. The more you show the closer you feel.
- Your mood depends on the other person. If they feel down not only will you also feel down but also you will do everything to make them happy. You both are connected emotionally.
- That person makes the normal boring things entertaining. Cleaning the house or studying becomes fun with that person. Every moment with them is amusing.
- You have become so comfortable next to this person that you stopped tiptoeing. Always truthful, always yourself even when you are being an awkward duck.
- They are your person (Grey´s Anatomy style)
- You need to tell them everything to be able to deal with things, it´s like they are that voice inside your head.
- You start to think about how your choices will affect that person before deciding what to do.
- Even when you are mad that person doesn´t lose their importance.
- You notice that due to them you have become a better person. You are more kind, smile more basically always in a good mood.
- You miss them all the time, even if you just saw that person an hour ago.
- No other person exists after you meet this person. There is no other interesting or attractive human being. Your eyes only find that one person interesting, blocking all other candidates.
- When you think about the future you imagine that person in it.
- Their flaws don´t cancel out anything. You love them so you don´t care if that person has things that usually irritate you.
- You need to end the day talking to that person.
- Being angry with them makes you revolted with yourself.
- When you are with them you zone out from social media, internet, phones – you are focused only on that person. You go old school without a phone, your mind is only focused on that person.
