The days of pink clouds with smirking reactions all lead to a collision of lips, leaving anticipation with a quiet dance of victory. Before we step together into a relationship, the world is a heart-breaking uncertainty. The constant “will they, won’t they?” buzzing, echoing, tiring our head. As these thoughts attack, your weeks extend to longer texts, casual dates and flirty nights. Then it happens. The moment we have been waiting for – will you date me?
You both are dating, now what?
The relationship twirls into a routine at a slow unrecognisable pace. Although you can’t see it, obviously you won’t feel it, but it is there, and eventually, you will notice it. The scheduled plans, planned passion, and predictable actions. Why do we even ask to hold someone’s heart if we stop trying after? Does the other person transform into a monotonous responsibility?
Is the fight over?
Are we programmed to believe that what is worth our energy is the fight? To make a person feel wanted, exciting and beautiful. Is it wrong to think that this should be more than just in the beginning?
Don’t accept a dusty mindset — a mediocre state of love. The person you chose to be with is everything. Even if it is a short infinite, that person will be with your forever. How can you be with someone that doesn’t make you feel special? Is it an unrealistic thought to want that after the chase, we shouldn’t turn the lights on to reality? What is reality but an ever-changing concept? If you chose that one person always, then it should be a person that makes you feel like a goddess. This person should still wonder about your mind. They should be your loudest cheerleader, fascinated by your hobbies. This person wants your body like the first time. They always kiss you with passion. You are in constant communication, and a day can’t go by without seeing you. Romance is a second language, and love is a continuous addiction.
Are you wanted or are you taken for guaranteed?
If it is real, then the fight is never over.
